He Wont Talk to Me Ever Again Poem
How can I repent when she doesn't even want to talk to me? Blocked me on FB. Said she'southward gonna block my number if I endeavour to contact her.
We had a good relationship. Best friends. I was her first love. I had been dealing with a lot of things at the time and she always helped me through them every bit I had done the same for her. I made mistakes of course and she did also, but I always apologized and never repeated the aforementioned mistake twice. In her eyes though, whenever I fabricated a mistake, I was perceived as repeating those mistakes. I did say things sometimes and realized I shouldn't accept said them and she would get so hurt, so easily. I adored her to death and ever told her I loved her besides much to hurt her. When I hurt her, I would get so upset with myself knowing that she wouldn't permit it go. But it was similar she would get injure over every little affair I did incorrect or that she didn't agree with. Beginning issue I had was that she gave me an ultimatum which yous should never do to someone you dearest. She told me to quit smoking weed or she wouldn't engagement me. I would've quit but instead I rebelled and started using it more. Hiding it from her and lying about my use. I did it nearly out of spite merely information technology ended up playing into my guilt. I was incorrect for this and now I've sobered up afterwards the break upward. Some other issue I had was the bars.. shed e'er desire to get and I didn't like it. I told her I didn't similar it but told her I wouldn't control her decisions if she wanted to get. But I would get upset when I could tell she wanted to go simply wasn't straight up with me near wanting to. Id almost try to pry information technology out of her or I always encouraged information technology so I could move on from that one worry I had. Well anyways, the day nosotros broke up, she wanted to exit and it was the night before fathers day. My dad passed abroad iii years agone and I wanted her there just didn't want to ask her not to go. I got anxious and nervous and acted immature instead of telling her I wanted her at that place. I assumed she would flip on me. Saying that I just didn't desire her to go out... only that wasn't the case as I had let her become earlier without worries. She flipped out. Saying I didn't trust her. Screaming. Crying. Was common cold towards me and called me a liar for wanting her with me and she was pretty nasty while I was begging for her to not leave me. Which I shouldn't take done. Then I said some nasty things back to her. Which I shouldn't take washed. I basically sent a mean text nigh how my unhappiness was her fault and I blamed everything on her. I said it out of anger and instantly realized what I had done. I said sad and then many times and told her I didn't hateful it. I had so many mixed emotions at the time and I accept never acted that mode towards her but she didn't stand for it. She told me to never contact her again. Blocked me on FB. And won't fifty-fifty speak to me. I but desire to clear everything upward with her so she doesn't perceive me as 'that guy'... because she knows improve. And I practice too. I've made real changes since and then and Sick always want to be a friend to her. Nothing more. If she gave me 1 last gamble to talk, I know she would understand now...
#2
9 years ago
Yous cannot force someone to talk to y'all, as much every bit you lot have a story, if you do not have an audition, your story remains, your untold story.
Just give her space, lots of space, in fact practise not fifty-fifty give her an incling of you, just disappear on her. The thing is, she will eventually miss you and will desire to talk with you, whether out of curiousity or miss aspects of you that she will want to recreat so in time you volition go the opportunity to talk, homo nature.
#3
9 years agone
Thank you for the quick response. I accept been holding dorsum on talking to her and acted like a fool when she dumped me by trying to get her to talk to me so I don't arraign her for leaving. I told her I wanted to die without her and scared her fifty-fifty more past doing so. Since and so, I've made many changes and began to seek counseling and everything to make myself a ameliorate person. I got a gym membership. Got into schoolhouse and now I'm getting a skillful job. I lost myself in honey and got super depressed when she left... and really wish I hadn't been then head over heals because she would've reconsidered otherwise. But your suggest helps and hopefully she does remember the practiced and not the bad.
#4
9 years ago
Let the states hope, I really want it to work out for you.
#5
9 years ago
I think when we love someone and really want to spend our lives together with them, we tie up our self-worth and self-esteem with them & the relationship. They fill the void we once had (which wasn't necessarily depressing) but once they get out - its much, much worse and the void even more noticeable.
That's what I am suffering from. I just had a serious human relationship cease. You can read my thread on a "long distance relationship breakup" when y'all have a minute and maybe some of you tin advice me equally well.
Good luck with your situation! I hope nosotros are all able to move forward 😊
#6
9 years agone
#7
nine years ago
Mr. NiceGuy wrote:
:laugh: Post your link!
Mr. NiceGuy is not existence so nice...😄
#8
ix years ago
😁 Hahahaha the smiley was an accident!
#9
nine years agone
😄 Its all good, just kidding around.
#10
9 years agone
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#11
nine years agone
#12
9 years ago
Oh sorry, I was replying to overnice guy.
I just got out of a Long dist relationship. Maybe y'all can chinkle in and give me feedback on if I should go along my NC dominion or try to woo her back?
My circumstances are a bit unique tho. Thanks in accelerate for your reply!
#xiii
nine years ago
I volition reply shortly.. got a day full of taking care of myself. Something I oasis't done. Instead I've sabbatum around depressed and just waiting for her to talk to me but I'thousand realizing that she may never come dorsum to talk or run across how I'm doing. She is moving on and I got to do the same. I got pilus cut. Going downtown for lunch. Then the gym. And a relationship meeting. So an AA meeting and so to schoolhouse... practice some of this and I guarentee it will subside your pain and y'all may run into someone more worthy of your dear along the manner. Girls are funny in the way when they decide something, they stick with it and the more you lot attempt and send begging and so get angry and express the anger, the further away they go. I pushed my daughter and then far away but if y'all go on your absurd and just proceed with your life and man upward, she will virtually likely reconsider. Don't be similar me. Just keep your cool and don't talk to her anymore if she called it off. That'southward her bargain and now you accept to respect her decision and practice what y'all gotta do. I haven't read your stuff yet simply this is a generilzation that I've learned from my state of affairs. My ex got her family and friends all involved and of grade they encouraged her to run further.
#14
nine years ago
I've done the same thing. I've been sitting around depressed, but also going to the GYM, learning Martial Arts, forcing myself to be more social, talking to parents & friends compulsively nearly the breakup and trying to man the f*ck upward! I've immersed myself in forums, reading/talking to ppl who've had long-dist breaks or breakups in general.
My ex has been attempting to contact another ex of her'south since even the mean solar day of breakup..as that was a factor in the break upwardly itself (she realized she still had feelings for him and non the aforementioned ones for me). I just felt poorly treated, especially cuz I thought she was over him before dating me, and this revelation about her feelings for him really destroyed my world.
Likewise lately, I've been 2nd guessing my conclusion to initiate a definite no-contact dominion (I told my ex not contact me ever considering she stopped having feelings for me, and instead had her ex-bf in listen). I saw it equally a way of not prolonging the drama and unhealthy zipper (which occur in many breakups). I had to become out...and perhaps I have regrets. Hence, the never ending thought loop of "Should I" or "Should I not.."
She wanted a pause for a longest time tho from what I observed during the last month of the relationship...so maybe thats how girls break up - Slowly distancing themselves, not following the aforementioned dating rituals like when we start started dating . I saw it coming, but I was likewise naive to appraise its significance till it hit me, then BAM!
I agree...when girls decide something, they stick to it. Funny thing is, I asked her what i could accept done to exist improve or do better in my next rel and she had nothing significant to say. In my assessment of her, I gave her a handful...harsh dose of reality. I think she didn't have any real issues with me...instead it was her with issues.
I'd encourage you lot to read my thread when you aren't likewise busy, considering it def has its own unique quirks. The long-distance factor and the presence of the "3rd man" in that particular combination impacted it more than expected.
#xv
9 years ago
beach_boy wrote:
Also lately, I've been second guessing my determination to initiate a definite no-contact rule (I told my ex not contact me ever considering she stopped having feelings for me, and instead had her ex-bf in mind). I saw it as a mode of non prolonging the drama and unhealthy attachment (which occur in many breakups). I had to become out...and maybe I have regrets. Hence, the never catastrophe thought loop of "Should I" or "Should I non.."
I concur...when girls decide something, they stick to it. Funny thing is, I asked her what i could have washed to exist meliorate or practice better in my next rel and she had nothing significant to say. In my assessment of her, I gave her a handful...harsh dose of reality. I call back she didn't have whatever real issues with me...instead it was her with issues.
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Dude,
Are you certain we weren't dating the same girl? lol
same situation as mine, what makes me think is, is because that the consequence was with her and her mental problems, don't you find yourself belongings on longer because you recall that she's only going to snap out of it and realise?
I didn't practise annihilation, yeah I could've been more exciting by doing more things (days out etc) just I still treated her like golden (or so I believe)
Weird isn't information technology, but I've only accepted that she volition always be caught in that bike now.. never breaking free.. I just hope ane day she looks back and thinks 'yano, he was good to me'
😊
#xvi
9 years ago
adurrant wrote:
Dude,Are you sure we weren't dating the same girl? lol
same situation as mine, what makes me remember is, is because that the issue was with her and her mental problems, don't you discover yourself holding on longer because you retrieve that she'south only going to snap out of information technology and realise?
I didn't exercise anything, yes I could've been more heady by doing more things (days out etc) but I still treated her like gilt (or so I believe)
Weird isn't it, only I've only accepted that she volition always be caught in that cycle now.. never breaking free.. I simply promise one day she looks back and thinks 'yano, he was skillful to me'
:)
Haha I hope not!
Seriously tho, I'thousand holding onto the memories only I've accustomed the relationship is over.
Yes, office of me feels she is going to think the expert times and maybe contact me, only its unlikely considering how I made it articulate I don't want to hear from her. In the unlikely chance that we connect over again, there is going to exist besides much emotional clutter to continue it without new issues. I actually told her to see a professional person about her moodiness, impulsive nature and her hot/common cold personality the day of our breakup. The fact that I called her out on information technology made her nauseous considering she has been thinking of seeking help for it as well!
My dad had this to say to console me:
"Women, when they reach their mid-twenties realize their clock is ticking. For some biologica/emotional reason, they tend to make some harsh decisions, such as cutting off contact from the love of their lives, dumping a caring bf and other decisions that defy logic. They go into panic mode, wanting to live a lifetime in a span of 2-3 years, without firsthand consequence. They accept various emotional problems later, and 1 day you find out they are married."
Now I concord with him, because thats exactly what my ex-gf did to her prior bf of 3+ years after moving away. I inherited a girl with major issues, which slowly took over her as we dated. She mentioned that she talked to some of her family unit/friends and realized she left that guy at her peak (age of marriage). Maybe someone from her family put an idea in her caput and now she wanted her other ex back, because of her insecurity/regret.
And y'all know what, I enjoyed the expert times with my ex gf. She wanted to interruption it off cuz of her problems, and when she realizes it..she's going to exist stuck in another emotional loop and have to live with it for the balance of her life. And I won't be around for her.
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#17
7 years ago
double lol plz 😄
I call back nosotros are members of the aforementioned club, guys 😄
#18
6 years ago
Aww i hear you on that one
#nineteen
v years ago
Im goin information technology too bra i was in a 12 year realationship westward the first real love of my life. She meant the world to me gave her anything she wanted, her troubles were my troubles, anytime she fell i was always at that place due west my mitt out to help her go back up. We were engaged ready to strt a life together which i idea, then problem in paradise strtd happening thru the yrs we were together of course it wasnt the brady bunch theres no such thing as a perfect realationship but things were gettn worse between usa and now she dnt reply to my calls or texts b4 this she endeavour to give bs reasons to leave me sayn she was tired of me. I was good human to her only i guess as we grew she grew apart from its life information technology sux merely u jus gotta go westward it. The all-time matter i cud say to u is "They cant hold a good man downwards"! Go along yr head upward
#twenty
5 years ago
I lost the honey of my life my best friend the best matter that ever happened to me considering of foolish things I bankrupt a lot of promises I fabricated to her and now she left me she blocked me from everything I can't even speak to her I feel so bad for what I did I'd literally requite anything to go her love back she was a perfect girlfriend she was everything I always wanted and I still found ways to mess up the relationship I feel so stupid and so depressed idk how I'one thousand going to move on the pain gets worse everyday im not normal since she left
#21
v years ago
I wasn't a skillful man to her all the time but she was good to me all the time it kills me I didn't treat her correct all the time I took her for granted and I'one thousand paying the ultimate price this hurts then much
#22
five years ago
You lot creeped her out somehow. Stop blaming her for her gut feelings about you. Get over it and motion on.
#23
5 years ago
Did the same .. will never forgive myself ... she was the best .... and I fucken ruined it
#24
iv years agone
Look boys and girls, life is like this sometimes, but trust in the weirdness of life as well. I'thousand non preaching, I'm telling u this with a broken heart of my own, it was my error bla bla, just these things take ii. For now take it slowly and have that it'southward going to suck for a while. Nothing you tin can do right now will work for 2 reasons A. She bankrupt up with you, so presenting yourself equally the same man is stupid, y'all're holding onto something that is already cleaved, information technology's not attractive and it is a mistake. If y'all ever accept a chance to sort this out, information technology has to be something new! B. She needs space from you, you demand her to miss y'all if u accept any hope. You can't collect honey by kicking over the hive. Be cool nearly it, use that every bit motivation to sort your own life out, make yourself better at being you. It might piece of work with her, she might never talk to yous once again, but ultimately y'all're dragging out the near painful chip of this. Go be attractive and disariable, have fun and live. It's your best risk at getting back your ex but information technology's your only chance of moving past this signal. Doing the same things and expecting a different result... we all know how this ends.
#25
4 years ago
Well that infinite did more harm than skilful! It's nigh as if this fourth dimension away either hurt her feelings or gave her the window to run abroad-it's crickets now no matter what I practise! Hurts BAD!! I may even be blocked, I know she blocked me on FBook! Fourth dimension hasn't healed......#itfigures
#26
3 years ago
My best communication is to leave them alone, learn to live on your own over again, you lot were fine before you met them.
I left my girlfriend 5 months ago and became miserable after about 2 weeks to find out she's with someone new. I see them out everywhere. I recently stopped going out and just do me, I'm meeting new women without bars and learned what Iam doing incorrect in my relationships. Life is much better without her and I realize she wasn't that great anyways. Just keep moving forward and if they come back so cool, hangout, joke around, have fun start a new affiliate. Remember you only accept one life. YOU are in charge of your ain happiness. Good luck. 🍀
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#27
iii years agone
Leave it alone, move on, don't be a psycho it's a large turnoff!! time heals I promise, Iam but hither because I once was in these comments crying a river and at present I gained valuable noesis with time and Iam telling you, it's not the end of the world, it only feels like it!! Do you, the relationship will fade in a few months. Have fun !!
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